Homemade Prince Charming

This is a old post from my old blog, hope you like it.

In today's society we have two type of guys, we have the asshole and Mr. Prince Charming (at least that's how I classify them).

Every female has come across "the asshole" once upon a time, we all have. When we meet "the asshole" we are automatically attracted to him (I'm speaking from prior experience); Sometimes we are attracted to this guy because of his physical appearance, while other times we are attracted to him because we want to be considered "special" (You'll understand what I mean as you continue to read).

When females meet "the asshole" he's the way he is because of past experiences, he wasn't raised the right way, he has no morals, or he hasn't matured as yet.

Many females believe that they're misunderstood by the people they're surrounded by (that can be true sometimes), so they try to figure them out because they think that one day this guy can be their "Prince Charming".

Many females believe that if a guy has done every other female wrong (including her) but decided to change his attitude for her (which takes forever), she's special; so she puts all her time and energy into him and their relationship and does whatever she can to get him to change.

What she doesn’t realize is the time she has wasted trying to change one guy to be considered “special“, a “Prince Charming” has passed her by. If she would have went for “Prince Charming” there wouldn't be a need for her to invest so much time into trying to turn him into her perfect guy, because he's already perfect (or close to it).

She would't have had to endure pain trying to get someone to change for her. "Mr. Prince Charming" would automatically consider her “special”; he would do anything to make her feel and understand how special she is.

At the end she would realize that she’s not special, she just tolerated something a next woman wouldn't tolerate.

What I’m trying to tell all my female readers is very clear (in case you don't understand), STOP wasting your time, STOP tolerating bullshit, STOP allowing men to hurt you, it’s not WORTH it.

"Prince Charming" does exist (despite what some people think), there’s no need to try to make your own. No one wants to go through pain and much more just to get a guy to change for them. No one wants a homemade prince charming.